Having a toddler can be tough work at times. They are no longer that tiny baby you brought home from the hospital, they are a walking talking bundle of emotions. Sometimes those emotions can come spilling out.
This week has been tough and the only way I could express it was through a poem.
Today you hurt my feelings
Today you hurt my feelings.
Today you made me cry.
I know you didn’t mean it,
I know you don’t know why.
You woke up this morning,
You were in the darkest mood.
You would not do as you were asked,
You would not eat your food.
You pushed over your sister,
You broke her little heart.
She is only little,
Her world was torn apart.
You screamed and shouted,
Yyou stomped your feet.
You threw down all your toys.
It made my eyes fill up with tears,
Hearing all the noise.
Today you hurt my feelings,
Today you made me cry.
You told me you didn’t love me.
I’m trying hard to think why.
Am I a bad mother?
I always try my best.
Our routines have been altered
And that has been your test.
You’ve started school,
I’m back at work,
You miss me I can tell.
The thing you cannot see, is that I miss you as well.
Today you hurt my feelings.
You didn’t see me cry.
I still love you, I always will
And this is the reason why..
You are my beautiful baby,
A toddler now it’s true.
Your world has changed
And you find it hard
But you will always be you.
Today you hurt my feelings.
Today you made me cry.
One day you will be a mother,
Only then will you know why.
Does your toddler push you to breaking point too?



Kelly Jackson
Sunday 12th of April 2015
This was my day yesterday. My beautiful toddler drove me to distraction with naughty behaviour. Everything you said in this poem and more! It did make me cry and also question my parenting skills! So thank you for reminding me this is all normal and I am doing ok! X
Katy
Sunday 12th of April 2015
I am glad it helped Kelly, it can be so tough at times but as you can see from all the comments I think we all face it at one point or another x
Jenny
Friday 10th of April 2015
Oh love the poem Katy and we definitely have all been there. Thank you so much for linking up to Share With Me. Have a great weekend. #sharewithme
Katy
Saturday 11th of April 2015
Thanks Jenny x
Debs @ Super Busy Mum
Friday 10th of April 2015
Oh bless you *hugs* we've all felt like this. Raising a toddler is hard work! xx
Katy
Saturday 11th of April 2015
Thanks Debs x
mamasVIB
Thursday 9th of April 2015
Brilliant! This is so true and should be a print out for every mama of a toddler xxx
Katy
Friday 10th of April 2015
Thank you lovely xxx
Hannah Budding Smiles
Thursday 9th of April 2015
Aw Katy I may not have a toddler but Toby has made me cry too this week so can kind of relate. It's hard isn't it because you know they don't mean it but it cuts deep all the same. I hope your new routines settle down soon and your beautiful girl feels more settled too xxx
Katy
Friday 10th of April 2015
Thank you Hannah, being a mummy is so hard sometimes x