Welcome back to Our Story- my trip down memory lane, sharing how I met Mr F and how finally after a lot of heartbreak we came to be Mr & Mrs. If you have missed the first 3 parts why not have a quick catch up!
Ok so we left the story as I had told him I could no longer be his friend. As I walked away in tears he had told me to stop. Good cliff hanger that- sorry!
So there I am, crying my eyes out (in the middle of the street I might add) and he tells me he cannot be without me. So I turn around and say ok what about your girlfriend? ………… long silence………….. He doesn’t know. uh uhhhhhh wrong answer! At this point my bossy side came out (again) I had nothing to lose so I told him straight – if he wanted to be with me then he had to let her go. We couldn’t just be friends as it would never work.
Luckily for me he chose to be with me. I am forever sorry to his ex for what happened, I truly am and even though she is happily married now, so got her happy ending too, I don’t think I could ever look her in the eye for what we did. I cannot dwell on it too much though and what is meant to be will be!
So, after a year of knowing each other, being inseparable, we were finally a couple! I could not believe it actually and for a long time I felt as though I couldn’t hold his hand or call him my boyfriend. Something that really bothered me though were those 3 little words. If you’ll remember I had said them once before and that had ended in heartbreak.
I did let them slip a few times when I wasn’t watching my words and they were always met with the same frightened expression. This really bothered me as I so desperately wanted to hear that he loved me too. At times I felt as though maybe he didn’t love me, that I was just a friend to him, someone to keep him warm while he was away from home.
It was probably then that I began to ruin things. But more on that later…
We went home to our respective homes at Christmas. So different to the year before when I had pined after him, knowing how much I loved him and he could never be mine. Instead, I was going home knowing that I would have a boyfriend to go back to. As someone who grew up an ugly duckling, bullied at school, this was the most amazing feeling ever.
When we came back from the Christmas holidays (longest 3 weeks ever!) he told me to go look in his room, he had bought me an extra Christmas present (I have no idea what the other presents may have been, my memory isn’t that good!). I didn’t have a clue what he was on about and happily skipped off to see what it could be.
Sitting with a note was this funny little creature (who now sits on my dressing table), I am sure you will have seen them before. The note read: You have had the rest of me, now I give you my heart.
Cue the sobbing. He loved me!
He. Loved. Me.
Come back soon for the next part of the story ‘It’s not me, it’s you….’
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26 Comments
Kim Carberry
February 4, 2015 at 8:43 pmAww! This is so lovely to read!! So sweet x
Katy
February 6, 2015 at 9:41 amThanks Kim, I love writing it all down 🙂 x
FromMummytoMum
February 4, 2015 at 10:32 pmAww I am loving hearing your story!! It’s lovely that you kept it too 🙂
Katy
February 6, 2015 at 9:42 amI think if I didn’t write it down now I would forget it forever! x
Jenna
February 4, 2015 at 10:40 pmOh Kate this is a rollercoster to read. You have me hooked every time!!
xxx
Katy
February 6, 2015 at 9:43 amHa, the next one isn’t so fun! x
mummyofboygirltwins
February 6, 2015 at 7:47 pmThis is like a book! I am gripped! Hurrah he loves you 🙂 Lovely story and so beautifully written too xxxx
Katy
February 7, 2015 at 5:55 pmThanks hun, I am loving writing and Mr F is enjoying reading it too!
Julia @ Rainbeaubelle
February 6, 2015 at 10:24 pmHurrahs! He loves you! Can’t wait for the rest! Xx
Katy
February 7, 2015 at 5:54 pmFebruary is a short month so wont be long til the next one! 🙂
Sarah Christie
February 6, 2015 at 11:01 pmAh Katie, so sweet and how romantic xxx
Katy
February 7, 2015 at 5:54 pmHe hasn’t been since haha! x
Everything Mummy
February 7, 2015 at 8:45 pmaww soo cute! I’m a little worried by the title of the next one though!
Katy
February 7, 2015 at 10:00 pmYes, not the happiest of things to write about as you will see x
Laura @ Life with Baby Kicks
February 8, 2015 at 5:58 pmOh gosh I want to know what happens next! It sounds a bit like our story but I don’t think I could ever send that public!!!!!
Katy
February 9, 2015 at 9:23 amHaha yes well Mr F isn’t too happy about me sharing it all – especially knowing how it goes in the next post! x
Mini Travellers
February 8, 2015 at 8:39 pmthese are great to ready Katy but like Amy said I’m worried about the last one! #sundaystars
Katy
February 9, 2015 at 9:21 amHa yes, I think Mr F is going to have to hide for a month when the next one comes out! x
Heledd
February 9, 2015 at 1:14 amYou should write a book Katy!! I absolutely love these posts of your love story. Can’t wait for the next part! xx
Katy
February 9, 2015 at 9:16 amHaha maybe a publisher will stumble across this and offer me a deal haha! x
Hayley (@hayleyfromhome)
February 10, 2015 at 9:19 amThat is so sweet, oh your story has made me smile this morning Kate! Loving reading these xx
Katy
February 11, 2015 at 10:59 am🙂 I love writing them too x
Katie
February 14, 2015 at 9:54 pmThis is a really great story, but I’m not patient enough to wait for the next bit!!! x
Katy
February 14, 2015 at 10:17 pmYou’ll have to be- unless you can hack my account and read until May! 🙂
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